Paying attention to how far behind you are from your destination. Or Paying attention to how much progress you’ve made so far.
The first can lead to frustration and lack of motivation. The second usually leads to gratitude, empowerment and boost of motivation.
Just remember, the journey is what really matters at the end of the day, not the destination.
So make sure you spend more time to enjoy and be grateful about where you are now, instead of constantly being obsessed about a specific fixed state you need to reach. Give credits to yourself for your progress and transformation.